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What we saw today……

Written By: Arlene Ridolfi Valentine - Nov• 19•15

was time flying by!  Today (November 18) was my 72nd birthday.  Yikes!  How did that happen?  It’s not like I should be surprised because it’s myself I’m talking about here, but there’s this sense of unreality about that number.  It’s not middle age, is it?  That went by a long time ago.  It’s always easier when there’s a name you can attach to your age…..a descriptor….like teen, or thirty-something, or middle-aged, but from there on the descriptors take on unfamiliar, even uncomfortable connotations.  Senior citizen?  White-head?  Elder?  Old fart?

Does anyone who gets to celebrate this birthday feel as I do?  That it just sort of sneaked up on me?  That no matter what everyone else calls 72, I’m on the everyone else team and not the 72 team?

BirthdayWell, no matter about labels.  It’s a 72nd birthday and I’m mighty  grateful to be celebrating.  I’ve had many varieties of birthday celebrations…..fancy parties with lots of presents, late-night events with lots of cocktails, birthday vacations for those special decade milestones, dinner and dancing birthdays, head-cold birthdays spent with pillows on the sofa in the company of old movies, but by now I realise that the kind of celebration I had today is just as special as any of the others…..
I spoke with our kids.
I had tea with girlfriends.
I got some flowers from the sweetest greengrocers in the world.
I got a bottle of perfume and cocktails and dinner out with my best friend Russ.
What a lucky girl.

Italian Island Hopping

Written By: Arlene Ridolfi Valentine - Nov• 16•15

A real benefit of living in Florence is the ease with which you can explore other areas of Italy.  For all the things that are wrong, that don’t work, that disappoint, there is one constant about the place.  It is a beautiful country.  Spectacular shoreline and a lot of it, mountain ranges, a few large cities that retain their identity with unique architecture, quirky little hill towns that range from bustling-with-life to near-desertion, and a surprising number of islands.  We are water people and we jump at the chance to visit an island so when the opportunity presented itself on a recent Sunday, off we went.

Capraia Island Ferry

Ferry from Livorno to Capraia

Along with a group of like-minded friends, we took a high-speed ferry from Livorno to the island of Capraia.  It’s in the Tyrrhenian Sea, about two hours off the coast. The big open sky, salty air and seaspray …… true joy for city people!  The reason for the visit was the Sagra di Totano (Festival of Squid), an annual event which marks the absolute end of the summer season.  And for anyone riding the ferry back to the mainland that night it will most certainly be the last time they visit the island until spring weather calms the sea down again.

Port of Capraia

Capraia Port

I’m not a particularly enthusiastic squid eater, but food festivals in Italy are treasures.  Whatever they cook is extraordinary, the best of the season, the best of the traditional recipes, the best of the complementary dishes and desserts, and certainly the best wine choice for the event.  The tiny main street along the port was lined with food booths that all featured squid in one way or another.  Fried and served alone, fried and served with sautéed onions in a sweet and sour sauce, cooked slowly with broccoli to become a creamy soup, made into a rich red sauce and served with polenta….one great taste after another and all served with a smooth vermentino wine.
The port was crowded with small vessels and a couple of ferry boats.  It was a summer day replayed in November  and spirits were running high which always happens in Italy when you’re on an island and the sun is shining.

Capraia House                       Capraia Village House

 Many of the port houses, like the pink charmer above, have gardens that spill out toward the water.  The village houses, on the other hand, sit on the mountaintop and are surrounded by greenery and unending views of the sea.  The village is small, very old, wind-battered and picturesque.  Like most Italian islands, Capraia has its own castle (which was once a prison) with impossibly tall walls that I’m sure made escape impossible……although I wonder where would one escape to.   Its lighthouse sits out on its own promontory and is now automated, even though it still houses a keeper.

Capraia Castle         Capraia Lighthouse

We love islands, but even we are in awe of the sturdy, independent and intrepid 300 souls that make up the population of this little world.  A beautiful day with friends…..good food, lots of laughter, and another peek at a unique version of Italian life.