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Scicli Sightings………I Sposi

Written By: Arlene Ridolfi Valentine - Jul• 12•16

Everyone loves a wedding, but in a small sicilian town like Scicli a marriage is much more than just a union between two lovers…..it holds promise for the future, hope that a new family will take root here and continue on with a traditional framework for modern life.

The Bride Arrives at Church

The Bride Arrives at Church

We knew something important was about to happen when we walked into the main square and found it full of flower trucks, elegantly dressed people, and ever so many regular folks like us gathered around the entrance to the monumental Chiesa di San Giovanni.  The bride arrived and entered the church to a roar of applause from all the folks outside.  As soon as she was in, everything quieted down and the sounds of the wedding march began…..but they were not emanating from an organ, they were played out with trumpets.  A truly goosebump-inducing experience, especially since the entire piazza had fallen silent.

Chiesa di San Giovanni

Chiesa di San Giovanni

As the outside crowd dispersed and the ceremony began, I popped into a back corner of the entry and took a photo of the beautiful cathedral with its solemn event unfolding.

Mr. & Mrs. Greet the Crowd

Mr. & Mrs. Greet the Crowd

A few hours later, after a high mass and photo moments, the new couple proudly walked hand-in-hand down the main street with all of their friends, neighbors and the odd tourists like us cheering them on and taking photos.  Not everyone got to experience the wonderful wedding lunch that followed, but we all felt like we were part of the event and we shared in the love that was overflowing in the piazza that day.

Getaway Car

Getaway Car

We didn’t see their getaway…..the party went on for hours, long into the night……but the getaway car was parked in the square, ready to speed them off stylishly into their future.
Three cheers for love……

Scicli, A Small Town in Sicily

Written By: Arlene Ridolfi Valentine - Jul• 11•16

I remember thinking as we got off the bus in Scicli (pronounced shee-klee)……this is going to be an easy town to love.  We are here for the month of July with the specific intention to slow down, reflect upon where we are in our life right now and craft together an idea of how we’d like to live in the retirement (or semi-retirement) phase that we are now facing.

Scicli, via Mormino Penna

Scicli, via Mormino Penna

Having this as our first view of the town helped cement our decision to find a place in Sicily that offered small town life, had good bus connections to other parts of the island and was near, but not on, the sea.    We hadn’t counted on being bowled over by the beauty of the place and the absolutely compelling warmth and openness of the people who live here.

Our Scicli Neighborhood

Our Scicli Neighborhood

This is our street……a two-way street by the way…..with any corner turn requiring a full three-point maneuver.  Not that there’s a lot of traffic, mind you, but when there is I’m not the only one sticking her head out the door to keep an eye on things.  It’s fun.  And it’s also amazing how one’s focus can shift from worrying about money or jobs or kids or just about anything at all to simply enjoying the pleasure of the small things that stack up to form an ordinary day……

Veggie Heaven

Veggie Heaven

like what to have for lunch, for example.   The food here is going to get lots of attention in this blog….for sure I’m going to run out of fancy-food-description-phrases.  This salad, for instance, our first taste of Scicli served under an umbrella in that beautiful main piazza pictured above, was so simple, so satisfying….each ingredient is local, full of flavor, carries its own weight in the mix…..we’re swooning and we’ve only been here for a couple of hours.

Nightfall at Home, Scicli

Nightfall at Home, Scicli

By the time evening rolled around, we had taken a walk around the center of town, gathered a few grocery staples, unpacked and very, very happily turned in for the night.